Should i send my ex flowers at work?

me and my ex g/f broke up about a month ago after 8 years together but have been out a few times as friends. i want her back badly and she is aware of this but says at the moment she wants to be single. she told me that i was the one for her but couldn't continue with the relationship as it wasn't going anywhere. should i send her roses at work saying how much i love her and want her back? if not, what would be an appropriate gift to show her how much i love her?
Should i send my ex flowers at work?
You sound very desperate, the flowers would be a bad idea.
Reply:If she wants to be single, I think you should skip the flowers and give her exactly what she wants. Let her miss you. She needs to know she's risking losing you. As long as you still talk to her and hang out with her, you are actually just allowing her to wean herself off of you.
Reply:don't send them like that. the next time you go out and have a good time send her roses, but not all red if favorite color is pink send pink and red etc(doesn't work if favorite color is black). and on the note just say thank you for going out i had a really great time. this way its not about getting her back directly its about you care about the great time you had and thank her for it. it shows that you care and will indirectly help you to get her back. you'll look sweat and caring
Reply:I don't think flowers are a bad idea. Now adding a card saying you want her back, no that is not a good idea.She already clearly knows you want her back, but only way she will come back is when she is ready, an not b/c of flowers with a card begging. No woman likes a man who begs them back, trust me i needed space like your girl and he kept nagging and begging and even tried to make me jealous. after he kept on (after i asked if we could be friends during my needing space time),i broke it off completely b/c i couldnt stand him naggin me so much an i knew i deserved better then to be nagged to death an also trying to be forced back together. Now if you want to send her flowers, then go ahead, i recommend not all red, but just a whole bunch of different colors roses and just say i hope you have a great day, something simple an easy (no confessing your love or begging her back). I know this is kinda late now for valentines day, but you can always send it tomorrow and just say something nice like beautiful flowers for a beautiful woman. But keep it simple, all you really need her to know is your thinking about her an that you care, she dont need to know how much you care about her because she already knows, but try to give her some space relationship wise, ask her in a few months (2/3 months) about having a relationship again,be like i have given you space, an just want to know what you think about us having a relationship again. But for now be simple.
Reply:NO.

Get her a card and give her some space.

Sounds like the best gift you can give her right now...

sorry to sound so harsh but you wouldnt want to make it worst!
Reply:she wants you to commit..not just flowers
Reply:Give her her space, u sound kinda desperate
Reply:I don't think flowers is the answer to this. I'd save my money and respectt her wishes. She may think that you are still trying to run the show. A phone call telling her Happy V-Day is enough. She knows you still love her. Stop trying so hard. She just needs space. That's pricelewss. What are you afraid of? 8 yrs is long enough to know. Now she knows and she's ready to move on, but you are not. Don't be a pest.