Monday, February 13, 2012

Should i send my ex flowers for Christmas?

We broke up about a year ago. We have had sporadic contact since then. Sometimes I think she wants to talk, sometimes not. Just want her to enjoy the holidays.
Should i send my ex flowers for Christmas?
Is she with anyone else? If so, then no. If she is not anyone else and you are not trying to get back with her, send anything but Roses if that's what you wish to do. If you send them and you hear nothing from her, you know it's officially over, you get the closure you're looking for and you can then move on with no "What if's" lingering in the back of your head.
Reply:What kind of message would that be sending, I would say no.
Reply:You can but I would only send her a small bouquet. Something extravagant may make her think you want her back. Or send her a Christmas card personally signed.
Reply:no you shouldn't do that if she still has feeling for you then she may think that you want to get back together. if that is what yo want then go a head. if you want to wish her a happy holiday then send her a card saying that do not send flowers
Reply:No, just give her a call
Reply:NO...

Anyways,Why do you want to ? Do you still love her??!!!
Reply:No, you would be putting out the wrong message, it would be better to just give her a call on the phone....unless your planning on getting back with her. if your not, then sending flowers would be not a good idea at the momemt,but it would be best to just stick with a phone call or cards for now
Reply:Uhhhh, NO! She's using you when she has nothing better to do!! Let go and start over. She's an EX for a reason
Reply:y dont you just send her a card the past should be left at just that.

tell her to have a great xmas and leave it like that
Reply:If you want to come back, and it was your fault of the separation, and you don't have anyone right now that might get hurt, and she doesn't have a boyfriend that might get jealous go for it.
Reply:I wouldnt....she could be in a new realtionship...and would have to explain why she is getting them.
Reply:ther is nothing wrong sending flower to some1 u like... go ahead ..
Reply:I wouldn't. Flowers could make her think you mean more. (Unless that's your motive?) I would stick with a card.
Reply:sure go ahead...what could it hurt.....just dont harass her
Reply:no, bad idea.

Give her a gift card.
Reply:no i do not think so... you should just get over her and move on.
Reply:yea friends send friends flowers i think
Reply:you could if you want but flowers may insinuate a want for more. why don't you send her a card that says happy holidays.
Reply:Flowers would probably just confuse her. You need to do something that is strictly friendly and nothing more than that, like a card.
Reply:No dude hence the term EX get your manhood back %26amp; move on.
Reply:i dont think you should u could give her the wrong idea... unless thats the idea you want to send her... but it depends.. u may complicate things
Reply:...My theory only partner...you decide what's best for you though sincerely.

I would not create any type of contact with an ex that she does not want need or desire here for herself my friend.

You two are ex's for a reason surely.....and most people don't change in a moment about how they feel about an ex otherwise.

If you do send flowers dude?...expect nothing of any kind of contact from her in return really.

You are the one that still has feelings for her dude.

If she even remotely decided to wanna think like you do dude?...she would have already contacted you in regards to this kinda stuff already.

Let the dust settle for a couple of years my friend.

Some things do settle and will change with time...agreed?
Reply:I wouldn't because an ex is an ex. She doesn't belong to you anymore. If you are friends with her still then maybe yellow something would be nice. Don't get something that would send mixed signals....you don't want that.
Reply:No, I already sent her some.
Reply:No - you would give her the wrong idea.



Card, yes. Flowers, no.
Reply:Then text her/email her/ call her and say "I hope you have a Happy Holiday!!" BUT certainly don't complicate things by sending flowers.
Reply:I wouldn't. Just keep moving.
Reply:depends on if you want her back or not and if she has already found someone else. If you want her back and shes single then yeah go for it, send her the best ones you can find. If you just want to send friendship then stick with something like daisies or anything but roses. If she already has someone else then I would say dont send the flowers because you dont want to get into a triangle.
Reply:naww dog
Reply:yes, do it, if you still think of her as a friend
Reply:if u still like her, then send her flowers for nchristimas, and to take things farther, you can send a note with them, like giving her your number. depends on if you still like her.
buckles

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