Do you think its mean or bad idea to send yourself flowers for v-day to get ride of guys that may be interest
Well I wouldn't feel bad if I were one of them, if you want a guy's opinion so I don't think it to be mean. Mean would be to make and an apointment for a date and do a "no show".
After all it's your money but be aware that if someone find out it would sound a little "weird" to explain (like from a Ben Stiller movie kind of thing). Some people will make real fun of you if they find about it.
My advice is to let the guys be, if they want to waste their time and money, let them play fool of themself, but if one of them get nasty then is the time to be mean.
Reply:I see what your saying but what about if you just tell them that your already seeing someone. wouldn't that be a cheaper alternative?
Reply:nothing wrong with it.
but, maybe it would be cheaper to make sure these guys dont think they have a chance. you say they keep trying to get around what you tell them, so have you flat out told them you are not interested in them that way, and that you never will be? i know it sounds harsh, but sometimes you have to be harsh with people for them to get the picture.
good luck
Reply:no its fine, but u shouldve been sending them before v-day too.
Reply:No, I wouldn't say mean or bad, pathetic maybe.
Reply:You certainly have the right to send yourself flowers for Valentine's Day, but are you aware of the cost?? The price triples on V-Day. You may want to go with a stuffed animal %26amp; a card, maybe a balloon. Flowers would be a very expensive way to get rid of guys.
Reply:No, in fact I have sent myself flowers to make my man see what he may be losing to someone else. I think first you shpuld be totaly honest and open about your feelings towards him and if he still can't accept that, then do what ever you think it will take for him to see that you are not interested in him. good luck
Reply:Have you talked this over with your therapist, if a guy can not take no for an answer then he has the problem why live a lie to get rid of an idiot, if he can not take no for an answer seek legal help....spell check is working fine ,but not always accurate ,save your flower money on yourself ,and buy a spelling book , the florist does not have spell check for the card to yourself
Reply:Why should you waste your money just to get rid of all the guys that may have interest on you? Just let them be. It's not a big deal to receive presents from other people.
And you'll only put yourself into ashameness if oneday someone discovered that you actually send yourself flowers and it show that you're a jerk or just a geek.
Let the people give to you presents as it show their care towards you. And, it also show your popularity. Just don't think of their intention seriously as you may trap yourself into misery. Have a nice v-day and best wishes to you.
Reply:A example. Being hooked on someone and seeing her get flowers breaks my heart.
If the person loves OR likes you they'll respect that. You have a life why not recieve flowers.
As I stated earlier, Sometimes we want more what we can't have. it could back fire.
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