Have you ever been tempted to send yourself flowers...?

...to make someone jealous?



Before all you charmers start calling me sad blah, blah, blah - it's just a question, OK? I reckon it must at least have crossed a few minds.
Have you ever been tempted to send yourself flowers...?
Never done it, but it has crossed my mind.
Reply:I have thought about and and finally my friend went out and bought herself some so, so did it. There is no shame in it, I just find it brights up my day alittle and the room they are in. Report It
Reply:YUP!
Reply:It crossed my mind. But instead I went out and found another man to want to send me flowers.
Reply:no iv never done that but it depends how you feel only you can answer that question and deep down i dont think it would work because ud know the truth. any way you should not need to send flowers to your self because there is some one out there that will head over heels 4 you and that means more than flowers.
Reply:no i havent , but once i was in college and this guy joined, he was from albania and he had no friends. being the nice guy i am i invited him into our group of friends to come play pool thinking i was doing good and he would mix in, over a period of time he started to act very strange, never mixing with the opthers but always clinging on to me, this drove me up the wall but the more i distanced myself the more he clung on! after a certain amount of time it started becoming apparent that he was more than just friendly, i began to suspect this and thought, "ok, dont be homophobic, be mature" which was really difficult at times as he had become a real stalker. Finally I had enough I told him where to go, it was the last week before half term, that saturday i went to work and someone had anonamously sent me a huge rose and a teddy. I immediately suspected him and went mad as it was really embarrassing, he was now a stalker, being half term i couldnt pull him up, over the two weeks i was fumin, my mate said he was gonna kill him as it was so demeaning for me. Anyway the last day before we went back to college a girl rang me and confessed it was her, being mighty releived i actually thought it was really nice of her to do so and still have the teddy to this day..........dont really know why i told this story but you brought back a lot of memories of stalkers flowers and teddies, thanks. take care.
Reply:Yes, I've done it and it works!! Also, sending yourself valentines cards works too.
Reply:I wouldn't go as far as flowers maybe choccies and leave them on my desk or pretend to talk on my mobile (not that i ever have) :-) that sort or thing
Reply:I send myself some flowers after a good session with Rosey Palm.
Reply:I think you already know that something is not right really in your own heart don`t you?



If someone makes you feel this insecure,maybe it`s time for a change,you deserve someone special who makes you feel special enough so you don`t need to play these mind games.......



Be happy.
Reply:Ummmmmmm............no.
Reply:no........seriously dat is well sad
Reply:I used to buy flowers for my ex as a gift and tell him that I was really buying them for me. He thought I was joking, but the joke was on him. I really was buying them for myself. He was a convenient excuse.



I never bought them to make anyone jealous.
Reply:nope thats sad i have bought them for the house for everyone to enjoy though
Reply:let me do send u flowers on valentines and birthdays and special days am putting u on my mailing list.
Reply:not necessary. it's actually quite immature.
Reply:ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Reply:no why waste the money
Reply:no, flowers are expensive and i'm not worth the cost... ;)



if you have to do that, you need a life... :D
Reply:well theres no harm in buying yourself flowers.....but sending them to yourself is a little bazzar.....unless you want to try and impress your friends by saying that an admirer has sent them to you...just go out and get a nice bunch of flowers for yourself to brighten up your room...making someone jealous could cause friction so why bother causing a scene....it could backfire....my answer is no to sending yourself flowers.....just buy some and say hey look what i got myself...that may be a hint for them to go buy some for you
Reply:i can honestly say that has NEVER crossed my mind why would it thats BONKERS!!
Reply:havent done.. maybe it called too personal...
Reply:Never....Its s childish thing to do...
Reply:its a cunning set up....try it and see, and tell me how it goes x
Reply:Hell no- being honest I think it would cause more complications than anything else - trying to explain to the "jealous" person where they came from etc etc - no definately I wouldnt
Reply:no.
Reply:No, but I once worked with a woman who bought herself an engagement ring because her boyfriend was already married with children. Random!
Reply:I've done it once for the same reason you did. It worked. He never found out.