Im gay, my ex boyfriend send me flowers. What can I do? He didnt treat me with respect so thats why I left him

so write him a thank you note...what is the big deal here?
Im gay, my ex boyfriend send me flowers. What can I do? He didnt treat me with respect so thats why I left him
I agree with the 'best answer' thank him for the flowers but make sure he know that you are still not interested in continuing a relationship with him and tell him why too! Good luck with it. *hugs*

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Reply:you try to be attractive to him.
Reply:It is damm hard to leave the one you love. My ex took me for appox. 1/2 million dollars, put me in bankrupt, and almost killed me in our kitchen. But after 16 years, I was able to find a wonderful man who treats me so well. I love him. Oddly I found him in my church. Something about the Univeralist/Unitaian Church in Riverside that almost cosmic.Hang in there guy..
Reply:Sweetie, you go put those flowers in a vase.Put them in the bathroom (very near the loo).Have a laugh that he is still spending his money on you and feel blessed its over.You don't need a man that has no respect for you. Who would?

If he rings to ask if you got his flowers, say ,I put them in a vase in a place that always reminds me of you. That way you get to have a sweet,pretty bathroom and no way can he b*tch back at you about it. Also anyone new on the scene,(and there will be) has no reason to get upset if they see them and find out where they came .
Reply:ignore him, or if you want to be with him...tell him you too need to talk him about respect he should have for you and you for him
Reply:Let me tell you boy!!! Wen you leave them they always wanna come back if he treated u bad dont go back wit him find urself anotha man tat can treat like wat ur worth!!! Dont let them treat u for less remember!!!
Reply:Don't fall for it. If he treated you badly enough for you to leave him there's no reason to believe things would be any different. I had one that used to get drunk, beat on me and give me black eyes. I kept falling for the crying, apologies, promises and gifts. But after awhile the same things would happen again. Don't waste your time on someone who's going to treat you like crap.
Reply:ENJOY the beauty of the flowers....................they are a gift of God.



When you don't respect yourself, you have nothing. If he didn't respect you, who needs him!



Good for you in letting him go. Turn the page; move on!!



HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Reply:if you still have feelings for him accept the flowers! else send them back!
Reply:People can change, and he could be trying to reach out to you. If he didn't treat you with respect before, he could be trying to show you that he knows he was wrong. Do you have any desire to be with him again? If you don't want to be with him ever again, tell him. If you think things could work out again, tell him that he has to respect you and he won't get another second chance.
Reply:that's why you're not even gonna reply to his messages or calls or nothin! kick 'em to the curb if there's no respect. so, sexy latino chicky- wanna hook up with me???
Reply:Why did you feel the need to clarify that you're gay? This problem could easily exist in any relationship.
Reply:My BEST advise to you my friend, is to find an alter of repentance and then go turn your life around and live as God intended for you to live. the flowers won't save you from Hell fire but a change of life may.
Reply:you should do nothign so he sends u more and more flowers!! then u can send them to someone!
Reply:He's missing you and expecting you to take him back. If you do, look for less respect this time around.
Reply:how badly were you treated? depending on how bad it was this could be his way of makeing it up to u. the fact that he thought enough of you to send u the flowers says he was thinking of you and misses you
Reply:AKS A FRIEND OF YOURS THAT IS A GIRL HE DOES NOT KNOW. ASK HIM TO MEET YOU AT A BAR, PARTY OR RESTUARNT AND INTRODUCE HER AS YOUR GIRLFRIEND.

THAT WILL GET HIS ATTENTION!
Reply:Talk to him.
Reply:Put the flowers in water. Thats all