Should i send her some flowers to work ?
I don't believe you love her at all if you humiliated her infront of collegues!
Thats so low!
Reply:yes definately it will make her day
if not send some to me!!!
Reply:Well, if you send her flowers at work she'll be happy if her colleagues see them arrive - come on - what woman doesn't want this to happen to her? It's a sweet idea, if you've not been too bad maybe it will work for you. Remember if you've really upset her though it may not be enough, but it could be a very good start. Good luck.
Reply:YEAH!!! That would be good for starters. Sounds like it`s gonna take you awhile to redeem yourself and for her to forgive you, if she`s going to.
Reply:Yes it's A very good idea because like this at least you'll make her feel better as you told her bad things in front of her collegues so it's right to ask pardon in front of her works mates by sending flowers there. She'll feel much better and will appreciate this.
BYE FROM BELLA.
Reply:No, you can bet her work mates have seen you in action and will no doubt think you are weird. At the end of the day you are the one who is responsible for the relationship breakdown and she has moved on. You need to do the same. The best thing you have going for you is the fact that you have admitted to yourself(and us) that you have some anger management issues.
You should remain single for a while and experience life for what it is and have some fun. Another girl will come along and you will have learned lessons from your last relationship that will impact on the new one. Hopefully you will not be so uptight or angry about the little things. If you continue to be abusive with future girls then you will never be truly happy and will lead a sorry and hurtfull life. Dating is similar to evolution, eventually you get better at it. Also if you don't stop harassing your ex she will eventually call the police and you will end up in jail. Remember she is not attached to you now and that she is fully independant of you, so what right do you have to speak to her in this way.
Good luck
Reply:NO! If you are REALLY sorry for what you did, tell her and SHOW her that you made a BIG mistake. She won't trust you, but you will have to prove yourself to her. NEVER belittle someone in the presence of others. The timing for you to express your sincere regrets is in privacy. From what you said, I am not all that sure you are sorry. You seemed to have learned that you lost something you would like to have around. For ANY relationship to work, there has to be mutual respect. Sorry, I don't see it here. Learn from your bad experience and don't repeat it.
Reply:you should leave her alone.. if you treat her like that.. why would she want to be bothered with you??personally id throw the flowers in the trash..no girl should have to deal with a guy who acts like a jerk.. and cover it up with flowers!
Reply:i dunno but a note saying sorry and y u said what u said might make her understand but u should give it a shot
Reply:a women is like a flower
but pure love is hard to find.
if you give a flower then
yourself.
if she backs away you know your answer.
now a days most women don't need a flower.
but a true honest man.
if you give a flower then i say unto you.
this flower i give with a pure heart.
i can only move on i pray its with you.
my light is strong.if my heart get hurt i will try to understand
I'm here for you my love as a friend as a man as your new true life. we all need time to heal.so please take my flower
and my ray light of love.
Reply:Hello,
If you have said nasty things to her in front of her work colleagues, to be honest, a bunch of flowers will be sneered at. You need to make a big impression. I was in a similar position to you about 3 years ago.
I did what I now refer to as a "Richard Gere" (spelling?).
I drove to her work and then put the stereo on full blast with a slushy tune. I had a great big bunch of flowers. I shouted up to her office that I was sorry, and I still loved her like I did the first day I saw her.
You see, partly, admitting that it is your fault, and showing her that you are prepared to look a complete idiot to get her back, does make a big difference.
Do not do it if you are still going to be nasty to her though. You will not get another chance.
Good luck.
Reply:It wouldn't hurt, but if you're expecting her to instantly forgive you and want to be with you, forget about it. It is good that you want to make amends but it shouldn't be done just with the intention of getting back with her. Remember, she was on the receiving end of your nasty behavior, she may not feel the same as you. Most likely you will have to do more than flowers to get back in her good graces. You need to show her that you are genuine about her and your feelings and that you won't treat her that way again.
Reply:no ,she won't forget you for having treated her so badly .you must forget her,fortunuately her mates knows her very well or else she would have quit her job for long .next time you go out with another girl think twice before you open your mouth to hurt somebody.she's your ex thats it ,leave her alone if you really love her .who do you think you are one time you say some nasty thing to her next time you want her back .she's not a toy.grow up mature!
Reply:definitely but dont think you will be home safe you will have to talk to her about it and sort things out but sending flowers will put her in a good mood
Reply:NO ! if you really love her, find her a nice boyfriend.
Reply:Perhaps you could take them there yourself and apologise in front of everyone
Reply:NO - Leave her alone. Give yourselves time. Cos at
the moment you could be her a flower shop and it won't
make any difference at all.
You are just making a show for her friends.
Reply:you can send them .but your going to have to do more then that for her to forgive you .people should always try to be careful what they say to people because they can't take it back. if she gives you another chance you better be more careful and watch what you say and who you say it in front of .if she gets the flowers and he co-workers know there from you they'll probably tell her not to forgive you.
Reply:maybe you should send them as an apology for the rude behaviour. that way, its a really nice gesture, and theyll be appreciated even if shes not willing to have you back. it may be the one thing that shows her youre genuine. best of luck
Reply:Thats a start. Put some thing really sweet and from the heart on the card and then try to take her out to a nice place to eat. Then continue on doing nice thing and leave nasty at the door.
Reply:sure, thats nice...
Reply:hi!! in my opinion it should be better that you sent her some flowers to her house!!you should also write her a love letter.... I'm an Italian girl excuse me for my English!!!
Reply:Flowers are not enough for what you did to her,GO in person with the flowers and kneel down infront of her and apologise infront of her work mates just as you did before,that will proove your love for her.
Reply:i would send her flowers with a note telling her your are sorry and wish to make up for your mistakes.......take her out somewhere romantic just you and her and talk.....you need to show her your really sorry and you know it was a mistake
Reply:I advise that you send not just a flower but a greeting card that speaks your mind then follow up later.
Make friend with someone close to her who can plead on your behalf for reinstatement of your love in her heart.
She must have been seriously hurt. However, it is normal in a relationship that will last long. By now, both of you must have known your dos and donts.
Let her know that it has to be rough to be clean. Real love ususally rear its head and leave a gap where the partner vacate. If you do not feel her absence then she is not your own.
shoe lasts
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