Ladies, What does it mean if I send a girl flowers and she doesn't tell anyone who they are from?

The story is this... I kind of work with this gil that I like. I sent her flowers at work, but she refused to tell anyone who they were from. She told me that she liked them, and thanked me for them, and said that she hoped that I didn't mind her not telling anyone that they were from me, and that we would catch up later.



What am I supposed to read in to this? Is is because it is a work setting? or because she is embarrased because it was from me.
Ladies, What does it mean if I send a girl flowers and she doesn't tell anyone who they are from?
sorry 2 tell u... but shes probably embarrased.... move on. =[



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Reply:forget it
Reply:The only way to find out why she is secretive is to ask her. I would think she is not telling anyone because office romances are considered taboo, sometimes they are even against employee policy. She may just be using discretion.



Office romances are risky. If you break up, you still have to see her and work with her 40 hours a week. You also become fodder for the office rumor mill. Definitely don't get involved if you are not on the same professional level (i.e. manager/worker).



She may see these issues and may decline a relationship with you on principle alone. It has nothing to do with you as a person.
Reply:this may not be an answer you are going to like but personally i think she may be embarassed to tell anybody that they are from you because she is worried about what people think which i think is very shallow. I think your better off without her, find a girl who appreciates you and isn't embarassed of you because you deserve it as you sound very nice
Reply:I would honestly say a little bit of both. Move on, and find someone who would be glad to announce your flowers. That's what I would call respect for you, and what you did.
Reply:She might not want people at work knowing anything about her private life and if they found out from you then the rumors would start. It's usually not advisable to dip your pen in the company ink. Cause if it doesn't work out then someone is out of a job. Maybe she's trying to avoid losing her job and therefore isn't letting people know that there's any interest.



If you end up dating people are going to find out soon enough.
Reply:At work people tend to take things way out of proportion, maybe that is what she was trying to avoid.



I don't think that she meant it as an offense, but a way to keep people from gossiping.



Which can be both a good thing and a bad thing, because if she really did care about you , what others say shouldn't matter, yet you can also look at is as an endearing factor from her part, because she wants to save you from wagging tongues.