Should I send my gf flowers at work after a big fight last night even thought she started it?

Me and my girlfriend of 1 year had a really hugh fight because she was irritated because she had work mandatory over time. Then she was upset because she had to get on the phone and talk to the cable company (I could've done that) about the internet even though it was my fault. I tried to talk to her and she got smart and I really didn't appreciate that. Then she turned the TV off when I was watching it. That really made me mad. Then we had the biggest fight ever. I never cussed at her like that. But she she really made me mad. I do feel bad for cussing at her and I wanted to be the better person and send her flowers at work because I wanted to apologize but I really didn't appreciate her lashing out at me like that so I don't know. Should I do it or not. She has to work another mandatory overtime today
Should I send my gf flowers at work after a big fight last night even thought she started it?
If you are sorry for your actions then send them. Doesn't matter whos fault or who started it. If you do not want to send them because you think it makes you look weak then that is sad.



Apologies are great when they are sincere.
Reply:yes, you started it
Reply:Don't you dare send her flowers! That will only reward her for her behavior. This actually is good because you were able to see the real 'her'. I suggest you file this and never forget . Time to reconsider how and with whom you wish to spend your time
Reply:You were both wrong...but yes send her flowers admitting that you were wrong, you'll win biggggggg brownie points
Reply:I think you should send flowers to her :) that would be really really sweet.... Cuz maybe it will make her reliaze that your sorry and that she overreacted



give her a card and tell her that your sorry for cussing at her and whatever happend



and when she gets home let her relax ask her about her day maybe give her a back massage :)

she prolly didnt mean to get mad she prolly is just really stressed out..
Reply:If you want.

I'm sure if you were in the same situation, you would snap.

She's obviously dealing with a lot. Couldn't you have called the cable company? It sounds like you live there if you were watching tv and she was doing something else. Cut her some slack, she is just getting through life.



If you don't want to then that's fine, too.
Reply:yes your the guy your always in the wrong so yes get her flowers :D with and apologize then there the best part make up sex
Reply:Hey, thats a tough one, i think if you've been going out for a year then you should definatly try and sort it if you like her. I would send her the flowers and then discuss it later.

Good luck man
Reply:If it would make you feel any better, it's ok to send the flowers. If you feel you were wrong with what you said to her, then by all means apologise. It takes a big person to admit they're wrong. I'm not saying you're totally wrong in this, but partially because you obviously swore at her. She had no right in turning off the tv while you were watching it, nor did she have the right to be angry because she had to call the cable company. Did you offer to do this??? I'd assume you did just by what you said..that you tried to talk to her %26amp; she got smart with you.

I doubt she's angry with you, but she's more than likely angry at the situation. She probably was tired with working long hours, then felt she had to deal with frustrations at home (the cable Co.), plus the fact she very likely knew she'd have to work overtime again today.

We all have our issues..the important thing is not to let them get to far, or take it out on other people.

Go for it...send the flowers. You just may brighten up her day.
Reply:I think that flowers would be a very good idea. That is sooo sweet. Good Luck! ???
Reply:yes send her flowers





make sure you add a note to it either a peom or just a note tellling her how sorry you are



first off the flowers might cheer her up if she is having a bad day like she way yesterday and also they will show her that u are sorry

also make her diner(if you can cook) that will suprise her and make her very happy

P.S, dont forget the candles
Reply:Listen to Heather.
Reply:yes. send her flowers. apologize even though you don't think you started it.. it doesn't matter.. in her eyes, you're at fault, so apologize. guys like you made me proud :O)
Reply:to be honest think about wat u did if u feel like u did wrong then do it but if u feel shes wrong then hell no **** that if u say sorry wen shes wrong then be prepared 2 swallow alot of ****
Reply:apologize. You shouldn't have been cussing at her. A girl is very sensitive and get offended easily. If she Ives you enough and see that you mean every word you said in your apology then she would forgive you. You could also have sex with her after the apology since she doesn't really know how she's going to react after she forgives you. Because even if she Say's she's forgiven you. She's still us pet inside and she will remember what you've said or done to her. Next time when you fight with her again. She will bring this up over and over again.