Should I send flowers or card to friend who tried to commit suicide? She is in a psych hospital out of town.?

You should go visit her. Don't yell at her, just hug her and tell her that you'd be lost without her. Tell her she'd better be around, because you need her in your life. Tell her how much of a difference she's made, and be persistent. If she's a close friend and it's at all possible, visit her every day. Make plans for what you two will do together when she gets out. As someone who tried to commit suicide herself, just being there for her and reiterating that you love her and you're not ever going to let her do something so stupid again can do wonders
Should I send flowers or card to friend who tried to commit suicide? She is in a psych hospital out of town.?
Yes, I would try if I had the money. She needs someone that cares about her. and who else better than a good friend. I wish you good luck.
Reply:A thinking of you/you're important to me type of card is always an uplifting experience. Let her know you're thinking of her and that she is important to you. Sometimes one friend can be the catalyst that makes a difference in someone's life.
Reply:YOU SHOULD WRITE A LETTER TELLING HER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE AND CARE FOR HER AND TELL HER HOW IMPORTANT IT IS FOR YOUR CHILDREN TO GROW UO TOGETHER AND HOW LIFE ISN'T THE SAME WITHOUT HER NEAR... NOTHING NEGATIVE..... BE POSITVE ABOUT THE FUTURE AND MAKE HER REALLY FEEL HOW MUCH YU CARE.... WISH HER LUCK FROM ME ALSO NO ONE SHOULD HAVE TO DEAL WITH THINGS ALONE EITHER VISIT ONCE OR TWICE A WEEK IF POSSIBLE (UNDERSTAND THAT SHE FELT BETTER OFF DEAD THAN LIVING SHOW HER SHE IS ALIVE FOR REASON) GOD BLESS U BOTH
Reply:No, colors from the flowers will only worsen the treatment.
Reply:Of course!! i can tell she needs a friend rite now!! you would cheer her up with a card or flower!! :)
Reply:Maybe if she thought people cared she wouldn't try it again.
Reply:it would be so sweet, and that small thought would show them that someone cares about them, especially if she is not in the same town, it proves that compasion still is existant around her, i generally think that is a marvolous idea
Reply:are you nuts then she'll take the pointy thing that holds the card and jam it into her neck or something or slit her wrists using the paper from the envelope wha are you a big dummy go get into the bed next to her you whacko
Reply:Absolutely, she is sick and will appreciate the fact that you care. You are a good friend and both of you are lucky.

Good luck to each of you.
Reply:I cannot imagine what sort of a card you would send in this circumstance, I do not think Hallmark covers it but the flowers would be a very nice thing. they would be something bright in her room and it would let her know that someone is thinking of her which I think is extra importand considering.
Reply:Flowers, yes.
Reply:Sending flowers and a card would be good, or atleast I think so. Be supportive, tell her how much you love and miss her, and that you can't wait until she gets better.





If no one is supposed to know where she is, then I guess that's different. I would wait until she gets home, and be there to support her.
Reply:Yes. I think you should. A lot of times when people do that they feel alone, and I bet she feels really alone right now. I think it's a very thoughtful gesture on your part and I'll bet it will make her feel much better.
Reply:From what could I gather from your statement,you are extremely attached to this girl.You searched for her all over.Your concern is most genuine. Just do not ,I repeat do not at any cost reduce your concern for her or you are going to repent your whole life for it.Go and meet personally, the personal touch will do a magic for her and Iam sure she will be on the path of recovery on SEEING you. I wish good luck for both of you.
Reply:Both. She's your friend and you are posting this???
Reply:I would obviously she was feeling down, but maybe contact her family first to get their take on it. Good luck!
Reply:Send flowers. They are full of color and life. Both good reasons to stick around!