I'm looking for a particular poem that says, more or less, "send me flowers NOW, not when I am dead."

I know I have the clipping somewhere...but if anyone knows this poem, I would appreciate knowing the title/author. Tnx.
I'm looking for a particular poem that says, more or less, "send me flowers NOW, not when I am dead."
I think this may help you:

http://www.emule.com/2poetry/phorum/read...