Should I restrain myself or should I send her some flowers?

I recently met a wonderful woman over two months ago. We have seen each other about 4 times per week and our conversations have been more intimate than usual on the first few dates. We made love the day before Thanksgiving. I am thinking of sending her flowers to commemorate our first time together but I have been burned in the past with being too clingy.
Should I restrain myself or should I send her some flowers?
Don't just give her flowers...that is kind of like "here's some flowers thankx for the sex it was good".She could take that the wrong way it all depends on what type of woman she is. You should that her out to dinner ...nice but not to fancy. You can get the flowers but start with something other that roses especially red ones. If you do get roses chose pink. Pink is for passion..red is for love... yellow is for friendship...and I don't remember what white is for.You can have the flowers waiting for her at your place where you should take her after your meal.You open the door, turn on the lights, wait for her to notice flowers and if she doesn't assume they are for her you say huh, I wonder who those are for why don't you go check sweety. And yada yada the night will proceed and you'll most likely get lucky again!
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Reply:Just talk to her tell her how you feel , send flowers when youve done something wrong.
Reply:lol do it if u get bombed with "clingy" then itll sabotage ur relationship anyways because you'll screw one way or another if she can't accept ur thoughts from the heart.
Reply:i think that it would be very nice. just don't tell her you love her. it's too soon. send her flowers saying something like "i had a very nice time last night, and would you like to go to dinner on ??"

i think she will be very flattered. as for being burned everyone has been there you just have to move on and not judge this one for what the others have done to you. if it's right it will all work out. i've been burned and i've burned but now i have found my soul mate. so if it's meant to be it will.
Reply:Definitely send her flowers,but not red or pink...The significance of there color will show a different intention...Also,do not send them to commemorate making love to her....Send them just because...Misconceptions lead to misunderstandings...Keep you intentions pure and good luck
Reply:Send her flowers but not roses, that way it shows that you are thinking about her but you are not being clingy.
Reply:Send flowers if she thinks you are too clingy, then hell send them to me.
Reply:maybe just carnations in pink, red and white. no real commitment like roses would say.
Reply:Treat her the way you want to treat her. If she's the right one for you, she'll like it. If she doesn't like it, maybe she's not the right one.
Reply:yes, send her a small bouquet that has a bear or something that she can keep forever
Reply:If it's been several months and you just had sex for the first time, I'm sure she'd love to get flowers.
Reply:If you just want to send her flowers simply to let her know you appreciate her, do so. There's a difference between showing someone you care, and using gifts to generate a guaranteed response. Remember that, and the only automatic or guaranteed response you're likely to get will be a smile...(And hopefully a thank you...)
Reply:send her some flowers! she will appreciate them. it's good you don't want to be clingy, just try to keep tabs on it. sending flowers is not clingy....it's just sweet.
Reply:Women love flowers. It is coming from Your heart. I think it is a really good idea.



You could just say thinking of You...still.



The girls that burned You before, will be longing for You in the years to come........Promise......
Reply:Then back off and learn from your past mistakes.
Reply:In my opinion, you should send her the flowers. I wouldn't consider that too clingy. I'd be worried more about the opposite. Usually guys draw back after the first time and sending her flowers would be like saying, "I wasn't just in it for the sex." You know what I'm saying? Send her the flowers. Hope that works for you! Good luck.
Reply:I know that I would love to recieve flowers. I would think it was sweet and it would be nice to know that a man valued our first time together.
Reply:She doesn't need flowers for that, unless it was her first time ever in her whole life. Remember Anniversaries, or get flowers just because you want to. Don't be too clingy. It is a total turn off.
Reply:hmmm......yeaa i think i would wait a little bit to send her some flowers....but it was a good idea
Reply:send her a flower just don't make it about the sex, do it to be sweet and don't be clingy. use your head would you like a gift for having sex with someone? No that makes you seem like a hooker