Is it ok to send flowers to myself on Vday?

my man is not a romantic %26amp; i love flowers

i would sign them secret admirer or something of the sort

i would eventually tell him i sent them to myself

i just want to open his eyes

good idea or no?
Is it ok to send flowers to myself on Vday?
It's perfectly okay to send yourself flowers, but I wouldn't put any note with secret admirer. I would just have them sitting there for you to admire and for him to notice all by himself. Believe me, when he sees them, he will already be asking himself those questions. You don't need to do anything deceptive to at least wake him up a little. So, yes, I think it's a good idea. Hope it works! At any rate, you'll still have some flowers to enjoy.
Reply:Don't do that, it will only succeed in causing suspicion in his mind and driving you two apart. Talk to him.....if that is too difficult, then tell him you are gonna buy yourself some flowers for Valentine's...just coz you love Flowers....he may take the hint ! Good Luck !
Reply:No very bad idea. Just buy yourself flowers whenever you feel like it and put them in a nice vase and enjoy.
Reply:miss milagros very bad idea all it takes one mistake to creat galeci and can round the whole relationship i dont thing its worth it. all you need to do creat a momantem to creat a romanting it will all come back to you , good luck and hapy w t
Reply:do it!!!!!
Reply:Ask yourself this question first; what would you think if he received flowers signed by a secret admirer?
Reply:probably no hun.... i'd go and talk to him....tell him thats something you need and is very important to you... give him an example of something he likes so he kinda knows what it feels like...i think he would just get angry and upset which really wont get you anywhere...try talking and if youve tried b4 maybe shed a tear like really make him feel it... best of luck!
Reply:Yes send yourself some flowers.

That way when he sees them he will get the message and you can bet next valentine day he will send you flowers.
Reply:Do what makes you feel good maybe leave a suttle notion that flowers would be nice for valentines day.
Reply:I say it's a bad idea. Why not just talk to the man and let him know how you feel? If you have already talked to him and he hasn't responded, sending yourself flowers from a "mystery man" isn't going to change anything. Remember... you can't change anyone. He has to want to change, and there's always a chance that he never will.
Reply:He might go and surprise you this year but if you don't think he would get mad about it I don't see any harm in it.
Reply:I would send the flowers, but not sign it as a secret admirer. Just try to talk to your significant other and tell him you wanted to receive something nice for V-Day and knew he wouldn't do that. But otherwise, you're setting yourself up for a fight on Valentine's Day and possibly longer.



And yeah, some men just don't get it, even if you paint them a picture.
Reply:um. no.
Reply:lmaoo i saw the title i thought you were gonna do it just to excite yourself....haha hell yeahh make him jealousss girl!!!