Monday, January 30, 2012

Did he or did he not send flowers?

I was looking at my husband phone history on dailed calls and saw he made a call to a florist; I asked him who he sent flowers to, he said" I don't know what your talking about, then I asked why have you called the florist two weeks ago, he said" what are you talking about I didn't call the florist, then I said' what do you mean, it's in your cellular phone that you called; then he said he called to have flowers delivered to me but since they couldn't deliver it on the day when he called, he didn't order any. Here is a bit of info. my husband works out of state, therefore I only see him every two weekends which means late Friday and gone by Sunday afternoon, that's only two weekends a month. I was very trusting with my first husband, until my little boys said they saw daddy in bed with a friend of ours, after that I guess there were signs but I put an blind eye to them. Now with my second husband "this" what am I suppose to think, it is difficult, everything is off balance now, help!
Did he or did he not send flowers?
Why don't you call the florist and tell them that your husband ordered flowers for you but you never received them.And would they please check and see if they have the correct address.Be sure to give them a date that the order was called in.You should be able to get that from his cell phone. What have you got to lose?At least you'd have peace of mind if it turns out he is telling the truth.. ~HUGS~
Reply:Girl, Valentines day is a few weeks away. Maybe he is planning to send you flowers in advance. Just wait it out quietly and maybe this will be the case. I hope so anyways. If this is the case then it is actually kind of sweet.
Reply:go to your florist and ask
Reply:Call that florist shop and tell them you are "thinking" about having some flowers delivered to a friend. Tell them you'd like to know if they are able to deliver flowers when you want them delivered and if not, how much notice do they need? Make it a point to tell them you know of someone that called their shop and was told that they couldn't make the delivery when that person wanted them too but you just love their shop and would really like to give them your business.
Reply:Review his credit card statements!
Reply:Give him the benefit of the doubt. It is easy to jump to conclusions, and doing that always destroys your relationship. Maybe you need to reevaluate your situation. Are you happy? Talk to your man. Good luck!
Reply:If he called the florist and ordered over the phone, he had to have paid over the phone as well, check his credit cards.
Reply:Everything after the statement "I was looking at my husband's phone history" is immaterial...you don't trust him, and now he knows you don't trust him. You'll never know now, because I'm quite sure your flower-receiving days are through.
Reply:Just a suggestion... if his story is true and he WAS trying to send flowers to you, why on earth would he deny that? Why wouldn't he just say straight up, "they were for you, but they couldn't deliver" ? It seems like he was a deer caught in the headlights and so he denied, denied, denied.. until he came up with a lie of an excuse. I don't know... sounds like a cheater.

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