I dated a girl for a little while, we broke up and i want to get back with her. Should i send flowers?

I dated a girl for about 2 months and we moved slow and were both ok with that. we went on a trip with a bunch of people. during the trip something went wrong. i think we spent a little too much time together so we both backed off for the rest of the trip. After the trip i tried to return to normal but she stayed reserved and didn't try to make our conversations work, so we broke up. She wanted to be just friends and see if our conversation sparks returned when we hung out in a group. She said she wanted it to work, and wanted things to go back to how they were but didnt know if they could. We havent had a chance to hang out in a group but we have talked and it went alright. It doesnt see like there will be a chance for us to hang out in a group any time real soon. Should i send her flowers, show her i really care and ask her to go out? Are the flowers going over board? Should i wait until the next time our group hangs out?
I dated a girl for a little while, we broke up and i want to get back with her. Should i send flowers?
Mate if it's not to be it won't be. My old mum said to me, what is for you won't go past you.



This is so very true.



Move on my friend, move on.



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Reply:You shouldn't do anything. She already knows you're interested in making it work, and she's already given you her answer. Back off and let her breathe. If she wants to get back together, she'll let you know. In the meanwhile, respect her space.
Reply:Why not do the good thing and ask her on a date. in a group you're never going to be at ease with each other and everyone will be talking to you two and not give yourselves privacy. for sparks to fly talk alone about what the group does and your common interests. yes get the flowers delivered to her house and with a cute message.



sometimes theres going to be conflict within a group however if a couple breaks up like taking sides so be aware of this in case it does go any further.
Reply:DON'T send her flowers...it's cheesy and if anything its too unoriginal to bother doing.....if you want to get back together with her talk to her alone wiv her-pref face to face and tell her why....if she says no then leave it cos if she doznt want to be wiv u u can't change her mind.....and she mite feel pressured into getting back together-it won't feel right for any of you....!
Reply:2 months is not a long time, really.



Ask yourself

– why did you two break it off and can you talk about those issues.

- Can the problems be resolved??

-Will the same problems resurface at a later time?





You already had a big enough problem to break it off after only 2 months. This can’t be good.





You can send flowers, but I think it’s a waste of money. You may want to think about dating other girls and give her some down time or away time from you time. Maybe things will change maybe they won’t.



Best of luck!
Reply:I suggest you move on. She does not want to hurt your feelings by telling you she doesn't love you. best advice is to move on and if you want just be friends.
Reply:Move on she don't like you. She has moved on. deal with it. Good luck
Reply:i wouldn't wait for a social group for to tell her how you feel. she'll move on by then. but 2 months isn't worth all this, but if you think it is than ask her to have coffee with you or have lunch something simple where to you guys can talk it out, but if you want to wait for a social gathering and it's to slow on coming why don't you plan one your self, like call you friends and say hey you want to meet here and do this? but go easy you might look desperate.
Reply:just leave it abeg i don't think she is ready
Reply:Don't do the flowers you'll panic the poor girl! She knows you like her so just play it cool and wait to see how things go when you're out together again.
Reply:Move on hun, take it from a gal thats has wasted the last 10 months on a guy i should have got over ages ago, if the shoe dont fit dont force there are plenty of girls that will love to have yo that you dont have to kill your self over leave her alone and enjoy life and meet a girl that wants to be with YOU for being WHO YOU are!
Reply:go out, very publicly, with someone else, preferably more attractive than her, if she has any residual interest in you she will be consumed with jealousy and desperate to get back with you