His mom is dying he broke up should I send flowers to her?

I have been close to the family for the past year. His mom is terminal and I would like to send her flowers but I am not sure as he broke up with me two weeks ago and I do not want to put out the wrong message.

She does not have much to live and I am hurting I cant see her as I am staying away as he asked me to, as he is hurting and needs space.

What should I do? what is the proper etiquette in this situation?

should I send her flowers or not?
His mom is dying he broke up should I send flowers to her?
Send them, it will likely make her happy that you have thought of her.
Reply:Sounds like you know her well. Send flowers in your name. You have a relationship with her that doesn't depend on the now-over one with her son.



Sorry you're hurting.
Reply:Yes, you could send flowers. Or call her, or better yet; write a heartfelt letter, those are always good. I am sorry for what you are going through and his family too.

Peace,

Cathy
Reply:I would just go ahead and make the thoughtful gesture of sending her the flowers. And then let it be.
Reply:definelty send those flowers, its not about him, your sending them as a token of your "friendship?" with her. it would make him feel better as well even though he probaly wouldnt admit it
Reply:Yes I think you should U havent known only him you've known his whole family! If he get mad about you sending flowers to his dying mom then he has a huge problem its just showing that you care and there is nothing wrong with that!
Reply:In this case yes I would send her flowers. Just because he broke up with you doesn't mean that the family doesn't still have feelings for you. If you want to see her and her you,then set up a time that you can go see her without him around. If he won't do that then just be the mature person and go anyway and only deal with the ones you want to.
Reply:Definitely send the flowers with a short note addressing her and her situation or something to bring her a sense of caring from you for her. Maybe something to brighten her spirits. You shouldn't worry about what "He" might think of you. You are doing something nice for someone who needs it. No one should need permission to do something good for someone else.
Reply:Please--this is a tough time and your friend is overwhelmed. Just respect his wishes at this time. It would be a nice idea to send a small bouquet IF the hospital allows it--there may be a problem with pollen or germs being introduced in the room---sometimes the sterile enviornment is an issue---just let it be--forget the other issues--just pray for a respectful outcome in this tough time. When it is over--I am almost sure he will seek you out and thank you for being so considerate---just let it all be for the duration. I am sure he knows that you and all of his other friends are there for him and his family---he will be with all of you soon !!
Reply:I would send flowers it will let her know that you thought about her...
Reply:Drmatiz,, flowers would be perfect. But make sure they get to her through some sort of plan, te;; the florist. Or if you know when he wont be there,, you take them. It is a good thought from you. Good luck, Max
Reply:You are not sending flowers to him, you are sending them to her. Yes, send them.
Reply:you do what makes the lady happy.

this might be a great time to tell her you

valued her friendship even though it did not work out with her son. I ended a relationship with a guy and kept his mama. She says I do more for her than he ever did...
Reply:Yes send flowers and go see her before its to late,death had nothing to do w/u guys breaking up hurry!!!
Reply:I would send flowers and just keep the note simple. Don't reference anything about missing him or something like that.



Something like "You and your family have my deepest sympath."



I am very sorry to hear this.
Reply:Your sending flowers to the mother is between you and her. If you were close to the family then they will understand that your reaching out to the mom in her final days. Send an encouragement kind of card as well. Do not mention anything about him or your relationship with him in the card, keep it short sweet and simple. It should go over well if intentions are, if you have ulterior motives don't send flowers or a card.
Reply:yes, send the flowers....Its the mother u're dealing with not the guy. they are two different ppl.
Reply:Honestly, I would let it go considering the relationship between you and her son. It's good of you to want to send them, but he is in a bad state right now and might take the gesture the wrong way. Say a prayer for her (and him) instead.
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